sorry to hear that it fell apart. but Rock is right, at least you had the balls to go for it. Not everything works out. you're still young. its not the end of the world. all that jazz. There are a lot of girls out there.
25% are not lesbians, its probably closer to 12%
50% of them are not ugly. you live in OC where hot chicks go to breed. there are plenty of hot girls for you...Even though I find most hot chicks are stuckup bitches...
my advice...
cut your hair so you dont look like a male prostitute. haha. Just kidding...but seriously.

Good luck, and stay positive.